This past week I heard something that made me think. I don’t even remember where I heard it except that it was on TV. What was said was that we are all born into role, but responsible for who we become. Deep!! Yes, but it seems relevant to this site.
When we are little children we all have ideas of what we want to be, or in this context, to what we are born to become. Many times it is something that either your mother or your father does for a living. A little boy may want to be a policeman or a fireman. A little girl may want to be a dancer or a nurse like her mother. Also, these are kind of fun and/or glamorous to a little one. Sometimes something on television or in the movies may interest them. Who doesn’t want to be Superman or Superwoman and save the world.
Then we become teenagers and their childhood ideas change. The child realizes that he no longer wants to be the person he wanted to be when he was five. Some things just are not realistic. Other things change as they grow older and now they want to be something else. They have learned during their school years that they really are not interested in science or ballet anymore. They now have different interests, but at some point it becomes clearer as to what their role will be in the future and they must begin to go to school to learn how to become this person.
Sometimes it still is not clear to them what they want to be and they may change their plans a few times during the next years of their life. Many children don’t know even after they start their major in college and some still don’t know even after they have graduated and started their career. It is often difficult to know.
I have a grand neice who is a sophmore in college and she just recently changed her major. She thought that she wanted to be a teacher and to teach the younger children. Her major now is sociology and anthropology and still not sure that this is what she wants to do. She does know that she wants to help people and make a difference in people’s lives.
I think I said in my introductory pages that I went to school to become a nurse and then went onto a program in psychology. I finished my education in nursing and took the boards and became a nurse. I continued my education in psycholgy and received my BS and then went into a Master’s program. As I have said before, I wish I had gone into Psychology after finishing high school and not gone to school to become a nurse. I kind of combined the two in the end and worked in mental health in nursing most of my life. It was not quite what I wanted, but it worked out allright as long as I worked in mental health. Medical care nursing or any of the hands on care specialities did not interest me at all and I would have been miserable if I had had to do that all of my life.
That kind of makes me question the original statement that I started this with, which is, we are all born into a role. At least I question the first part of the statement. Of course a child does not know what he wants to do when real young and it is hard to decide as you get older. There are so many choices. However, it is better to change your choice if you are going to be miserable for the rest of your life.
The second part of the statement makes sense. As I just said, if you are not happy with what you are doing, find out what you think you would be happy doing and find a way to get into this career. The statement says that you are responsible for who you are in the end. We are all responsible for our own destinies. What kind of a life do you have if you remain in the situation that you hate? Some people do do this, but it can’t be much fun.
I have been stressing this even late in your life, such as after you have retired or left the job you worked in all of your life. It is never too late to start something new. Remember Grandma Moses? She was in her 80’s when she started painting and became famous for her artwork. I have always remembered this. Who says that you can’t start over even in your 80’s?
There are many people in their later years that have started with Wealthy Affiliates and started their own on-line business. With Wealthy Affiliates, one does not have to leave their home and go out in all kinds of weather to go to work. It can all be done from home and it can be done at your own pace. It really is an ideal situation for the older person, especially.
Wealthy Affiliates is a company that has everything you need to start an on-line business. It has a lot of training in doing this. It teaches you step by step how to start and design your website after you have used Jaaxy to help you find keywords for the niche that you haven chosen. It teaches how to write content. It provides hosting and other things such as images and other things needed for your website. It then goes on to teach you about social media and about marketing to make your site a success.